Enable Logging
diagnose vpn ike log-filter
diagnose vpn ike log-filter dst-addr4 %PUBLICIPOFDESTINATIONFIREWALLVPN%
diag debug app ike -1 diag debug enable
The Logs showed this
ike 0:VPN_SYD:VPN_MEL: using existing connection
ike 0:VPN_SYD:VPN_MEL: config found
ike 0:VPN_MEL: request is on the queue
Dead Peer Detection on either side was different